Wild Mind Therapy
Hi and Welcome, I’m Nikki Bailey a BACP registered counsellor offering short and long-term therapy to adults 18 years plus.
Counselling and Therapy
Locations
I offer sessions in-person in Barnstaple, North Devon from a cosy room located in the centre of town convenient for car parks, bus and train station.
Please note in terms of accessibility, there are two flights of shallow stairs to the room.
I also work online, so I am able to see clients based anywhere in the UK, via Zoom and FaceTime video calls.
Availability
I work weekdays, and have a limited number of evening slots. Please contact me to find out whether there is a time and day that is convenient for you.
About me
I worked in the sustainability field for nearly two decades until a difficult pregnancy halted me and caused me to reconsider my direction in life. I started in personal therapy to address internal struggles and early wounds that were holding me back. From that point onwards, my life began to change in profound ways that eventually led me to become a counsellor and help others make their own changes.
For almost a decade my work has been focussed in fields related to mental health and social projects. For example, as well as my current psychotherapeutic practise, I have worked with women experiencing challenging pregnancies, older men facing dementia, as well as people with learning disabilities through the charity sector.
I have an academic background in Environmental Studies and a long history of meditation practise, including Mindfulness Now teacher training.
Qualifications
My primary training was with Re-Vision in London, a respected training organisation for therapists. I hold a diploma accredited by the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP) and the UK Council for Psychotherapy (UKCP). During this training, I worked as a volunteer counsellor at the Psychosynthesis Trust in London and for several years at Clarity Counselling Services in Barnstaple.
I am currently undertaking additional training in Sensorimotor Psychotherapy, a body-based therapy for addressing trauma and attachment difficulties arising from childhood.
My approach
Integrative
As an Integrative Transpersonal Therapist, I may draw on various psychotherapeutic disciplines, including psychodynamic, related neuroscience, somatic psychology, relational and archetypal psychology. For example, drawing on a psychodynamic approach may help us to explore your subconscious - what is just below the surface of your awareness - to bring it into your conscious mind so that you can develop a deeper understanding of yourself and why you react or behaviour in ways you do.
An integrated approach means I can take into account you as an individual and your circumstances, and use elements of different approaches to help you explore and cope with your problems. For more information on integrative counselling and other types of therapy read here on the BACP’s pages.
Trauma informed
My approach often integrates body and movement with talk therapy. Because trauma and attachment problems directly impact the body, including the body in therapy work has the potential for deeper healing than just traditional talk therapy alone. For example, we may notice together any bodily sensations, patterns of tension, movements, posture or sensory information that arise for you. Overall, I work in a way that holds respect for all of mind, body, and spirit, whilst holding safety and compassion in uppermost importance.
BEFRIENDING THE BODY
“Neuroscience research shows that the only way we can change the way we feel is by becoming aware of our inner experience and learning to befriend what is going inside ourselves.
In order to change, people need to become aware of their sensations and the way that their bodies interact with the world around them. Physical self-awareness is the first step in releasing the tyranny of the past.”
Bessel A. van der Kolk, The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma
Collaborative & Compassionate
The process of therapy is collaborative and fluid, where we work together to explore your current life circumstances, your history and your hopes and dreams for your future.
Clients have described me as heartfelt and deeply authentic in my approach. My role is to listen deeply to what you want to share, to encourage you to explore patterns in your life that are causing you difficulty, whilst respecting your pace. I help to create a space where you can grow a stronger sense of self, so that you can start to feel calmer and more centred.
Inclusivity
I acknowledge through my work and in my personal life that we live in a world where many cultures, races, ethnicities, and beliefs exist. I recognise that it is my responsibility to work with a lens on equity, which to me means embracing diversity and inclusion in therapy and actively reflecting on my own biases. During our work together, I may also ask about your beliefs, background, ethnicity and the values that are important to you.
What to expect
Introductory session
An introductory session gives us the opportunity to explore what brings you to therapy, what you would like to gain from the experience, and consider whether we are a good fit to work together.
Session length and frequency
Counselling and therapy usually involves meeting regularly at the same time each week, with sessions lasting 60 minutes, although longer sessions of up to 90 minutes may be possible. Some people choose a short-term contract of around 6-12 sessions, and others a more open-ended time scale. At our initial meeting we would discuss what arrangements suit you best.
Confidentiality
All sessions are confidential. All records are kept in accordance with the General Data Protection Regulation. Wherever possible I will discuss any issue of confidentiality with the client first. I discuss my practice and process in supervision, during which the client’s identify is protected.
Working online
I usually work online via Zoom, a secure online platform. Please try to ensure that you are in a confidential space, without interruptions or distractions and where you will not be overheard.
Ending
Counselling is a process with a beginning, middle and end. I suggest a minimum of one to two weeks’ notice for ending therapy, although more notice will allow more time to explore the dynamics that endings bring up for different people. If you decide to end our sessions before the agreed time, I will usually suggest we explore this decision before we conclude our work together. Endings are important for several reasons including giving the client the opportunity to reflect on and more deeply integrate changes they’ve made in their lives.
Fees
I charge £35 for an introductory session of 60 minutes. Following this my charges are on a sliding scale from £45 to £65 per session.
What you pay relates to your income and local market rates – this is not worked out by any strict formula, and I do not ask for documentation of any kind. By example, I suggest that if you have an average income, you might choose to pay between £45 and £55 per hour; if you are earning well, you would pay more. I am open to discussing and agreeing your fee rate when we meet.
One does not become enlightened by imagining figures of light but by making the darkness conscious.
Jung
Contact
Please contact me to arrange an introductory session to explore if we would be a good fit, without obligation and in total confidence - as well as to offer recommendations or referrals if I can.
nikki.bailey1@yahoo.co.uk
01598 728680
Wild Mind Therapy